Love ONE another, not love another ONE

This is how Jesus wishes his disciples to do. This is the gist of the gospel today. He not only says this, but he really lives this out in loving his friends, his disciples, those who heard his voice, followed him, stayed with him, and welcomed him to be their Lord and Master. Unfortunately, this commandment of loving one another as He has loved us, has been set aside if not neglected for now, when there are many today who just take this for granted. This is so because of the prevailing culture today- the presence of many options. It sort of like, everything in life has a corresponding options…everything has a brand. Everything has rating. Everything has price. And because of these many options, we get confused in choosing which is the best one. And so it is not surprising why marriages broke up. When people think marriage no longer works, an option to separate is taken. Same thing with religious life or priesthood. When the ministry becomes a burden rather than a service, then an option of leaving the ministry or the religious life presents itself, and thus if there is no careful discernment, help and support, this can lead to confusion, disillusionment, angry and eventually neglect.  Jesus said, Love one another… But this seems to be so hard now. And it seems that Jesus himself makes it more difficult when he adds,..”as I have loved you.”

It is very difficult to love as he does. It is hard to eat with people whom we know are sinners. It is hard to speak out the truth  in front of the people who are in the privileged position in the society. It is hard to love our enemies. It is hard to forgive the person who have hurt us. It is hard to lay down our lives, sacrificing some things in our lives for the sake of others. It is hard to die for others. It is hard to love like Jesus…Really…

But the real problem for me now, is not that loving is hard…but because of the lack of commitment to love. Yes, we have to commit to love…Love is not a one-off thing, it is a commitment. If each of the spouse is committed to each other for life…for better or for worst, for poorer or for richer…till death do them part…then break-up in marriage might be far off. In the ministry of serving in the religious life, if a religious or a priest commits himself fully to the service of God and his people…then leaving the ministry or creating a scandal  of various forms, would be far off to happen.  However, we could not live out this commitment on our own. God is the one who enables us to commit,  sustains us, and guides us  everyday as we strive to live out this commitment of love. SO Let’s COMMIT to love another, and we would not love another one or another thing. RELATIONSHIP with Jesus, sustains in prayer…is the key to this commitment. Jesus does it and so are we.

Why did Jesus choose me?

Jesus‘ criteria for his followers is that one listens and follows him when he invites. If we look at the character of each of the apostles, we find that Jesus has actually gathered a whole bunch of personalities and quite hard to imagine how would they get on. But they did one thing…they listened to Jesus and responded to his invitation. They got on alright because they set aside their differences. They keep their focus on Jesus. SO if we just keep our eyes focused on Jesus…we would come to know that we are all loved by God, no matter who we are [rich or poor; famous or anonymous; black or white, etc.]; where we are, whatever we are doing, and whenever.  Sometimes it’s quite a big deal for us to stay focused on Jesus, to listen to him and more so to follow his invitation because sometimes we would think  that he is too kind for the bad people or he is too bad for the good people. But whatever category we wish to belong [bad or good or both], Jesus calls us to follow him for he is the only Way, the truth and the life. 

There is an amusing story about these first disciples implying that if Jesus would have chosen them today using the modern way of assessing people, only Judas Iscariot would have been found  more qualified for the ‘organization’ that Jesus wants to establish than the rest of the apostles. Let’s ponder on how God chose people very different from the way we look at people. 

“With a broad swipe at modern psychological testing skill assessment, someone suggested that if Jesus had sent his twelve apostles for these tests, this might well be the reply, he would have received:

‘Thank you for submitting the resumes if the twelve men that you have picked for managerial positions in your new organization. All of them have taken our battery of tests. We have run the results through our own computer after having arranged personal interviews for each of them with our psychologist and vocational aptitude consultant. It is the staff opinion that most of your nominees are lacking in background, education and vocational aptitude for  your enterprise. They have no team concept.

Simon Peter is emotionally unstable and given to fits of temper. Andrew has no qualities for leadership. The two brothers, James and John, place personal interest above company loyalty. Thomas shows a skeptical attitude that would tend to undermine morale. Matthew has been blacklisted by the Jerusalem Better Business Bureau. James the son of Alphaeus, and Thaddeus definitely have radical leanings and registered a high score on the manic-depressive scale.

One of the candidates, however, shows  real potential. He is a man of ability and resourcefulness, meets people well and has contacts in high places. He is highly motivated, ambitious and responsible. We recommend Judas Iscariot as your controller and right hand man.  [Jack McArdle]

-It is his work, and it can only be done by his power. At most and at best we are only messengers, or conduit pipes.

- Thank God our effectiveness as gospel people has nothing to do with our skills and talents. It is the spirit of God working in and through us.

-The ‘world’ could never understand that.


Dear Friend…It’s me Jesus…

Lovely mail from Jesus

If you never felt pain, then how would you know that I am a Healer?    

If you never had to pray, How would you know that I am a Deliverer? 

 If you never had a trial trial, how could you call yourself an overcomer? 

If you never felt sadness, How would you know that I am a Comforter? 

If you never made a mistake, How would you know that I am a forgiver? 

If you knew all, How would you know that I will answer your questions? 

If you never were in trouble, How would you know that I will come to your rescue?  

If you never were broken, Then how would you know that I can make you whole? 

If you never had a problem,How would you know that I can solve them? 

If you never had any suffering, Then how would you know what I went through?

If you never went through the fire, Then how would you become pure? 

If I gave you all things, How would you appreciate them? 

If I never corrected you, How would you know that I love you?

If you had all power, Then how would you learn to depend on me? 

If your life was perfect, Then what would you need me for? 

Love, 
Jesus 

Something good will happen to you today, something that you have been waiting for to hear. 

God our Father, walk through my house and take away all my worries and illnesses and please watch over and heal my family in Jesus name, Amen.