Generosity is not how much we give, but how much does it cost us
Homily for 32nd Sunday in Ordinary time year B 2012
Jesus in the gospel last Sunday summed up the commandments into one commandment of love- love of God and love of our neighbor as ourselves. Certainly many of us have our own ways of listening and fulfilling this commandment. Some of us went to a mission or voluntary works. Some lived this out by being a loving and caring mother or father of the family. Still, some have carried this out by being there- personally touching the lives of many people by our presence, by our witness and by our example. Certainly we can do this in million other ways because ‘love isn’t a big thing, it’s a million little things’ according to the quote I found on the fridge in the house of our parishioners- a lovely couple who had just celebrated their 61st wedding anniversary.
Sometimes there is a temptation though, to think that we already know so much. We have heard this commandment to love God and our neighbors so many times already that it might just become a maxim or a catchphrase for us. Jesus would tell us as he told his disciples to ‘beware’ of this. We might know so much but we don’t know how to put this knowledge into action. Sometimes also we just won’t do it. This failure to act out what they have learned is the setback of the scribes as we have heard in our gospel today. They knew so much of the law but they missed the main point of it all which is to love God and to love their neighbors as they love themselves. During the first century not all people were able to read and write. The scribes and few others were the only literate ones. Thus, they became learned of the law. So of course, people looked at them as scholars of the law. Because of this, people put them on a pedestal and the scribes liked it so much. They did everything they could do just to get more attention from the people. They dressed to impress. The most common place they would show off their social status was in the temple. There, they showed off their generosity by giving more coins. In the temple then, there were thirteen collection chests for offerings. Each of this chest is for a specific purpose (e.g. to buy oil for the sanctuary lamps, etc). The rich people would show off by going from chest to chest and drop their coins for donation. Jesus noticed all this, so he left a word of caution to his disciples: ‘Beware of the scribes.’
This means ‘don’t go there’, ‘careful’, or ‘don’t imitate them’. Instead, look at this widow and pray you may grow in such love of God as she had demonstrated. Two small coins are all that she got, yet she selflessly gave it all as offerings to God and to the temple. Her selfless love of God caught the attention of Jesus and thus she is worthy to be commended to his disciples. Unlike the scribes and Pharisees who might be giving so much but still only the surplus of what they have actually got, this widow gave her all.
The widow’s offering is what the measure of generosity really is. It doesn’t matter how much we give. What matters is that how much does it cost us. For the widow in the gospel, it might cost her whole budget for meal for the day and for her son or daughter. Yet her love and generosity moved the heart of Jesus. For the widow of Zarepath in our First reading today, her generosity to the prophet Elijah had cost her of only remaining provision for her and for her son. And again, her generosity paid off. She and her son had enough sustenance and provision to last for a little longer than she thought. And Christ himself in our second reading today, his love and generosity cost him his own life. He laid down his life not only to save us but for us to live.
As Christians, followers of Christ, disciples of him, and baptized in his name, we are also called to be generous and to bear the cost of it lovingly. This is one way to express in a concrete way our love of God and our love of neighbours as we love our own selves. This means falling in love as we give. Love as the motivation of our giving is very important because as Fr Pat O’Sullivan, a Jesuit priest, wisely said: “Generosity without love is extravagance. Care without love is cold duty.”
Many a times, we give something away because we no longer need or want them. So love is less really of a motive there. So how can we give something, or ourselves with such a kind of love that Jesus has demonstrated in his life and death?
Three ways. First, the widow in Sidon in our First Reading today would show us to share generously and lovingly even the very little that we have for the ones who is in need. She did it to Elijah and God has repaid her a hundredfold. She was provided not only for the day but for more days to come. She listened to Elijah and trusted that he is really a man of God. In a way by listening to Elijah, she was listening to God asking her to give up something for him. It is also our call that we take time to listen to God speaking to us now, and trust in him as he speaks to us in own particular situations and circumstances. We know this, if we come to an insight or an urge to live simply, and give generously.
The second way is to imitate the widow’s selfless act as we heard from our gospel today. She gave everything she had, no matter how little. She could have justified herself by not giving it away since as a widow, she has no one to rely on. But she gave all that she had to live on as Jesus spoke of her in our gospel. . She gave it to express her love of God, with all her mind, with all her heart, with all her soul and with all her strength. Moreover, she didn’t care how humiliating might it have been, to have only two small coins dropped into the treasury of the temple.
The third way to put love into our act of giving is in our Second Reading today. In the letter to the Hebrews read today, we heard of Jesus giving himself up, remember his very self for us. He sacrificed his very life by dying on the cross so that we may live. This is also a call for us. Like Jesus, we are also called to lay down our lives for others. But it is not a one-off challenge. It is to be our life everyday. This means that we not only remember God on Sunday but every moment in our life.
For Jesus, the measure of generosity is not how much we give but on how much does it cost us. For him it cost him his life. This calls us to reflect on our act of generosity, may it be in our giving of our time, our talent or our treasures. Are we giving some things away because it is our surplus or extra, like what the scribes did in our gospel today? Or are we really giving ourselves and our selfless love into it?
Prayer, Eucharist, and Friendship: Key to loving God and our neighbours
Homily for 31st Sunday in Ordinary time year B 2012
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Many of us might have heard of the extraordinary story of a Vietnamese Archbishop named Cardinal François Nguyen Van Thuan who was imprisoned by the communist government in Vietnam just three months after he was appointed coadjutor Archbishop of Ho Chi Minh (Saigon). He then spent 13 years of his being an Archbishop in prisons of the regime, nine of which was spent in solitary confinement. His extraordinary determination to be able to accomplish something good for God and for his people helped him survive in prison. The Cardinal then recalled that prayer saved him. ‘The Lord always helped me,’ he said. He also did write books about hope in prison. Another thing that sustained him in prison was the Eucharist. Because he couldn’t take anything of religions connotations with him he had to ask his friends to smuggle mass wine into the prison with a label ‘Medicine for Stomach Aches’ and also some hosts hidden in a container. ‘Every night I kept a tiny piece of bread for the following day’s Eucharist. And so every day for many years I had the joy of celebrating Mass with three drops of wine and one of water in my palm. This was my altar, my cathedral. For me it was the true medicine of body and soul something to stave off death in order to live for ever in Christ. One more thing he did that really made his life more remarkable was the friendship he had struck with his own jailers- or those who were assigned to guard him. ‘Those in charge had forbidden them to speak to me.’ The Cardinal recalled. ‘Initially my guards were changed every fifteen days. Prison authorities believed the guards risked being contaminated if left with me for any length of time. Eventually they stopped changing them because apparently they were afraid I would contaminate the whole force. And so the young students became my friends. The love of Christ has great power to change people.’ -
What an extraordinary story of hope, of faith, and love. Yet it is also a powerful witness for all of us how to love God and our neighbour altogether. The Cardinal’s love of God was so deep that even the walls of the prison wall and the censor of the government didn’t stop him from taking him as his nourishment everyday as he celebrated the Eucharist on his palms as his altar. This love of God also reflects his love to his neighbours, which in his case his jailers. He made them his friends. He had no grudge against the people who have put him there. Instead he showed the loving Christ to them.
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Friends, in our gospel today a scribe, one who knows a lot about the Jewish laws and prohibitions, all 613 of them, approached Jesus wanting to know which one of the laws is the key to all or the most important one. Jesus reminded him that it is love of God and love of neighbours one loves him/herself, taken as one commandment of love. Cardinal Van Thuan has concretely carried this out when he took his time in prison as an opportunity to be united with God all the more in the Eucharist and to show his jailers the love and forgiveness of Christ for all.
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‘But what does Love of God and love of neighbour really mean?’ we may ask. Pope Benedict XVI in his encyclical letter Deus caritas est while reflecting on the passage of the first letter of John (1 Jn 4:20 “If anyone says, ‘I love God’ and hates his brother, he is a liar’ for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen.) reminds us that ‘one is so closely connected to the other that to say that we love God becomes a lie if we are closed to our neighbours or hate him altogether.’[#16]. The Pope adds that the ‘love of neighbour is a path that leads to the encounter with God, and that closing our eyes to our neighbour also blinds us to God.’ [#16].
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So what does it mean for us now? We need not only to know who our neighbour is but more so of taking the move to help them in any way. Our neighbour is one who needs us and whom we can help Pope Benedict XVI would say. (Deus Caritas est # 15). We are also to bear in mind always, as Mother Teresa of Calcutta would remind us that ‘At the end of life we will not be judged by how many diplomas we have received, how much money we have made, how many great things we have done. We will be judged by “I was hungry, and you gave me something to eat, I was naked and you clothed me. I was homeless, and you took me in.’ But this also means we must not just understand our neighbours as people who are helpless or needy or far less privileged than we are. Rather, we are to look at them, (not to look down) as a whole person, to be appreciated of who they really are, and not to be looked down because of what they have- very little.
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So it’s worth reflecting and asking ourselves: How in love are we with our God and our neighbours? If we say we love God, have we expressed and lived out this love by showing to our neighbours that we care, support, and love them as they really are, not on what they have, or what they don’t have? Cardinal Van Thuan expressed his love of God despite his being imprisoned, in constant prayer, in taking the Eucharist his spiritual support and nourishment, and in showing to his jailers the love of Christ for them. Jesus, our High Priest is showing us how he sympathizes to all our human needs, weaknesses and limitations. He is a concrete example of one who is in love with God with all his heart, with all his mind, and with all his soul. He is also a definite paradigm of a person who is in love with his neighbour as he loves himself. In him all is one. We who are free: What are we doing to show that we care for and work out our fundamental calling: to love God and our neighbour as we love ourselves?
Many of us here might have heard of the story of Helen Keller. If you do, please bear with me if I have to repeat it to you because her story is such an inspiration that I can’t help but go back to it every now and again. 