On my way back to Australia from the Philippines, I went through Singapore. I had to wait for six hours in the airport for my next flight to Australia. It was a long and boring wait. So to break the boredom of waiting, I started a conversation with another passenger, a Filipina on her way to the middle East. After introducing myself as a Catholic priest, she was taken aback and said that she is an adherent to the Islamic faith. Out of curiosity, she asked me: ‘As a priest, you are not allowed to marry, are you?’ I said: ‘Not in the Roman Catholic Church.’ She added: ‘But you’re still human, and you are still attracted to beautiful people, aren’t you?’ I said: ‘Yes, absolutely, but my case is no longer a matter of human attraction or of my being human, it is already a matter of commitment.’ Then I asked her in return: ‘As a married person, you’re still attracted to other people, are you?’ She affirmed. Then I continued: ‘But you can’t just get carried away by your attraction because you are already committed to someone. Are you? In the same way, my commitment is a Catholic priest. This is my ground, this is my foundation on which I always come back to every time I do something, I feel something, or even in the way I carry out myself.’ She seemed convinced and said she’d remember my explanation from that moment on.